Dating the wrong woman can be exhausting and draining, it becomes worse if you have to put up with her because you are scared of change and scared of speaking up.
Yes, she is hot with a pretty face and a beautiful body but somehow, you are not entirely sure you’re meant to be together.
The thought is becoming disturbing, you think you love her, but you don’t think you want to get married to her.
In this article, I will be sharing with you 10 signs that show you are dating the wrong woman.
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- She brings out the worst in you
Some people just have a way of bringing out the worst in us by pushing us to the edge and making us react in ways we never thought we were capable of, constantly making us feel bad about ourselves.
If your woman causes you to behave like a beast and makes you feel terrible about yourself perhaps it is time to end the relationship.
- She disrespects and puts you down in front of others
If your girlfriend treats you with disrespect and fond of putting you down in front of others (friends, family, acquaintances), then she isn’t the right woman for you. Besides choosing to remain in the relationship is choosing to play with your self-esteem.
- She avoids serious conversations
If your partner is only interested in listening to you when you are admiring or complimenting her. She’s never interested in discussing serious issues that could lead you to profess your love for her or discussions around making plans for the future, if she has no desire to have these big conversations with you, it’s a sign that she isn’t keen on you and should be enough pointer that she is the wrong lady.
- She is not interested in your family
Because she is probably not interested in anything long-term, she’s not willing to meet your family, and if she has, she is not interested in them. If your lady dismisses conversations about your family members or if she feels embarrassed about them, it’s a sign that you are dating the wrong woman.
- She is manipulative
We can’t always get everything we want in life every time we want. If your woman, however, wastes no time manipulating the situation or an individual so as to suit herself and get what she wants then maybe it’s time to reconsider. For instance, if your partner goes as far as using sex to get you to do what she wants, it is a sign of a wrong relationship. Also, if your partner makes you believe you are at fault and blames you for everything that goes wrong goes in your relationship, then it’s a sign that you are dating the wrong woman.
- She’s over possessive
It’s okay to be possessive in a relationship, as a matter of fact, every man enjoys it. However, if your woman is over possessive, pushing every other lady that comes close to you away, it’s a sign you should not ignore. You are dating the wrong woman.
- You are not yourself around her
One major red flag that you are dating a wrong lady is when you feel the need to become an entirely different person. Of course, we all change a bit when we meet a new partner. For instance, certain activities that you would not pay attention to suddenly begin to pique your interest because you can link them to your partner in one way or the other.
However, when you find yourself acting different and wanting to please her every time you are around her, then it’s a sign of a wrong relationship. Licensed marriage and family therapist Virginia Gilbert says “It’s a definite problem when you find yourself molding your values, opinions and even your clothing style to suit your partner. If you edit what you say before you say it and constantly monitor how you come across because you feel like your partner is grading you, it might be time to let the relationship go.”
- She is clingy Granted!
We all want some attention. We want to be told that we are missed. We want to be told how special we mean to the rest of the world. We want to wake up to beautiful text messages and all that stuff.
However, having someone call us every hour of every day can be tiring and annoying. If your woman demands this kind of attention from you, then it is a sign that you are dating the wrong woman.
- She tries to change you
If your partner is so focused on making you look like her ideal or fantasy man rather than appreciating the man you have grown to be, it’s a sign of a bad relationship. If she tries to compare you with other people or tries to make you emulate other people, it means she is not proud of you and your achievements.
- She doesn’t care about you
If she doesn’t pay attention to what you feel or how you feel, she’s not interested in details that concern your work or any other thing that matters to you, she’s not bothered if you are happy and if you are not, she doesn’t treat you right around her friends and she only cares about herself and all that she wants, it is an indication that you are dating the wrong woman. Being in a relationship is a time to figure out what works for you and what doesn’t.
It’s a time to discover each other’s strength and weaknesses and a time to learn how to work out your differences. It is not a time to cope with each other for fear of change. So, if you think your partner is wrong for you, then it’s high time you went your separate ways and move on with your life.
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