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Men vs women who cheats more?

This is an unending argument that has been going on for centuries without a valid conclusion. I have listened to people argue on this topic from different perspectives. A good number of women will always argue  in favor of women while a good number of men will always argument in favor of men.

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Who is more faithful in a relationship between a man and a woman?

Last week I got a message from a friend of mine requesting me to join an open debate about this same topic. In order to prepare for the debate, I had to withdraw my personal opinion and instead interview others to see what people generally think about who cheats more in a relationship between a man and a woman. The responses were mind blowing so I decided to put them together in this article. Here is what people had to say.

  • WOMEN CHEAT MORE THAN MEN, BUT MEN HAVE MORE TENDENCIES OF GETTING CAUGHT.

This response came from a number of middle aged African men. They insisted that women cheat more than men. However, it is easier to catch a cheating man but more difficult to catch a cheating woman. A woman who is in a relationship can go as far as checking her boyfriend or husband’s phones regularly, she will follow him up on social media to see who is liking or commenting on his posts and what responses he is giving to them.

She will not stop there, she will go to the extend of following the women on his friend list and comment box to see the activities on the other end. Men on the other hand barely check to see what the woman is doing, and who is following her. Basically woman takes more time digging to see what a man is doing but men don’t usually pay much attention. Sometimes men are too confident that their woman is not doing anything at all.

IT’S EASIER FOR A WOMAN TO GET A NEW MAN BUT DIFFICULT FOR A MAN TO GET A NEW WOMAN

This is another point that continuously appeared in the interviews. A lot of people insist that it’s easier for a woman to get a new man than it is for a man to get a new woman. A lady could walk down the street for 10 minutes and already have many men asking her out. It is almost impossible for a woman to go out for a whole day without having a toaster. But men will have to get a woman’s attention before asking her out. The woman here is placed in the position of approving a man’s request and trust me they have many requests to choose from.

  • MEN ARE NATURALLY POLYGAMOUS

A lot of people especially women believes that men are naturally polygamous and not contented with one woman. Cultures like the African culture and the Islamic religion promotes the idea of polygamy, placing men in a position where they can have more than one woman at the same time. In this case, a man can marry more than one woman at the same time but a woman cannot marry more than one man at the same time

  • THERE ARE MORE CASES OF MEN GETTING CAUGHT THAN WOMEN GETTING CAUGHT.

No evidence no case! Although people tried to justify this point by saying woman are only smarter than men and can dig deeper than men, the evidence still remains that there are more cases of men getting caught on daily basis all over the world.There are more cases of unfaithful men getting caught yearly than women. Logically this means men cheats more than women that’s why you have more men getting caught.

  • WOMEN CHEAT MORE WHILE DATING AND MEN CHEAT MORE AFTER MARRIAGE

A lot of people argued that women cheat more in a relationship before marriage but men cheat more after marriage. Women engage in multiple relationships before settling down but when they finally settle down, they become more committed to one man. Men on the other hand cannot be with only one woman for a long period of time.They have intervals they must have a justifiable reason to cheat such as when his woman is on her period and when she just give birth.

WOMEN MUST HAVE A REASON TO CHEAT BUT MEN CAN CHEAT BECAUSE OF AVAILABILITY

A good number of people argued that a woman must have a reason for cheating. It’s either her man is not satisfying her sexually or financially or sometimes not paying her enough attention, whereas men can cheat because they see a new girl around who is ready to have sex. Men don’t need to have a reason to cheat, they just need space and a girl available and boom they start cheating

IT’S EASIER TO SEDUCE A MAN THAN A WOMAN

A lot of people argued that men have more potentials of cheating because it’s easier to seduce a man than to seduce a woman. All she needs to do to seduce him is to make him see what he wants to see and make him understand that he can have it anytime he is ready. One way or the other he will go looking for it. Meanwhile seducing a woman requires more than just showing her. To get a woman you must set a trap and then convince her to do it. You need to get her in your space and then give her a reason to do it.

WOMEN NEEDS TO BE EMOTIONALLY CONNECTED BUT MEN DON’T

A good number of people also argued that except a woman is a prostitute or doing it as a form of revenge, she must be emotionally connected in order to cheat but men can do it without any emotionally connecting. A woman who truly loves her man will never cheat on him except at gun point but a man can love his woman and still cheat on her for no reason

MEN ARE JUSTIFIED FOR CHEATING BUT WOMAN ARE JUDGED FOR CHEATING

One of the major points that kept rotating throughout the debate is how men are justified for cheating but women are crucified. The society places men in a position where they can cheat and get vindicated for being a man whereas a woman is judged for doing the same thing. This is definitely looking toward gender inequality where men are given the upper hand to think and feel that everything they do is right, but at the same time it’s wrong for a woman to do the same thing.

A WOMAN HAS LIMITED TIME AND OPPORTUNITIES AS COMPARED TO MEN

In as much as a lot of men tried to discredit this point, it was able to stand the test of time. A lot of people argued that a woman is limited by nature. She has at least 3 to 5 days monthly where she is on her period, then she becomes unattractive when she is pregnant and cannot have anything to do with a man immediately after giving birth. A man on the other hand is not in anyway limited by nature. Few men argued that a woman can take on more men in a single day than a man can take on women in a single day.

MEN ARE MORE REPRODUCTIVE THAN WOMEN

Biologically, men are one million times more reproductive than women. Naturally a man can reproduce everyday for as long as he lives but a woman and can only give birth once in 9 months with a limited time of less than 50 years before menopause. This gives men more opportunities to cheat for as long as possible.

A WOMAN NEED A MAN TO ASK HER OUT

This is one of the points that was heavily criticized by a lot of men and women. Generally, in most societies it is the duty of the man to ask a woman out. However a lot of people argued that time has changed but the fact still remains that a man has to be the man. A good number of people argued that women cheats less than men due to the fact that they need a man to ask them out. It is easier for a man to go for what he want than it is for a woman. In most cases women have to wait and only give signs to signal the man. In this opinion, it is more complicated for a woman to go for what she wants than it is for a man

THERE ARE MORE FEMALE PROSTITUTE

A good number of people insisted that prostitution is a job and should not be included as a relevant point for judgement. However, many prostitutes are dating or married and in most cases their partners are not aware that they are prostitutes. Judging by the fact that majority of the prostitutes are female, it is clear that women cheat more than men.

IN CONCLUSION

After listening to the arguments and points by various individuals, I could not come up with a conclusion on my own. In your opinion and coupled with the arguments above, who cheats more in a relationship between a man and a woman? Feel free to drop your opinion in the comment section and share with a friend let’s see what they think, feel or believe.

How to spice up your relationship

15 important tips to spark up and spice up your boring relationship

Things are constantly changing on daily basis; life is becoming more and more difficult every day. In the midst of everything, a spiced up relationship can give you strength and hope to face the world fearlessly.

You can overcome a lot of life challenges when you are naturally happy from the inside. Genuine happiness has become rare in our modern society, the best way to build your comfort zone is by building a spark in your love life.

  • How can you spice up your relationship?
  • How can you build a spark in your boring relationship?
  • What are the 15 important relationship tips to spice up your relationship?

Here are few tips that will help you to build a spark and spice up your relationship

UNPLUG FROM YOUR DEVICES

Our phones, tablets, computers has become our best friends and worst distraction. People tend to pay more attention to their devices than their loved ones. Social media and internet usage is increasing on daily basis with a good number of people becoming addicted to it. There is nothing worse than talking to your partner about yourself only for them to be scrolling down social media

Set a goal to detach from technology and technological appliances. Spend your free time with your partner. The time spent scrolling down your phone or laptop should be the time spent together with your partner. It may sound small but that will do magic.

LEARN AND SPEAK YOUR PARTNER’S LOVELANGUAGE

Every individual is unique and has a different form of communication. People have different ways of expressing themselves. It is very important to learn your partner’s love language. You may love someone with every single cell in your body, unless you convey that love in a way that they will understand, they may never really feel loved or desired

You need to learn how your partner show and perceive love, what means of communication is best suitable for their understanding. Learning and communicating with your partner in their love language can also work magic.

SURPRISE EACH OTHER

It is not doubt that every human being love surprises. Send a bouquet of flowers to your loved one, surprise your lover with a movie ticket, a nice jewelry, a massage, a pedicure or anything.

Surprises must not be big, it could be anything. You already know your partner and what he/she wants, now it’s time to show it. Surprise your partner with what he/she wants.

Surprising your partner with anything is more like reminding them of how special they are to you.

EXPLORE AND DO NEW THINGS TOGETHER

Trying new stuffs with your partner is another great idea if you want to spice up your relationship. Try new restaurants or dishes together, travel to new places together, try cooking together in the kitchen, try a new coffee shop together. You can as well try new sex positions.

Just find a way of trying new things together with your partner. This will build more bound as both of you are spending time together and exploring together.

GO ON SPECIAL DATES

Go on dates as often as possible with your partner. Dates is a great way of reminding yourself of how much you want to spend time with each other outside your home. Go on date nights, go on date to the movies, go to the waterfall, go to a park or any place of importance.

GIVE EACH OTHER SPACE AND SPEND TIME APART

Give each other space and spend some time apart. Allow yourself to miss your partner, allows your partner to miss you. Giving yourself the opportunity to miss each other will make you realize how much you love each other.

Sometimes you don’t recognize how much you care about someone until you’re really miss them. It is hard to appreciate someone when you are constantly around them. Make out time and stay away from your partner, spend time with your friends and family, spend time on your hobbies and allow yourself to feel the excitement of seeing your partner after missing him/her

REVISIT THE PLACE YOU BOTH USED TO LOVE

There are places with great memories that can never be forgotten in a lifetime. Those places are worth revisiting with your partner. You can revisit the place where you met your partner or recreate the first date experience. You can’t live in the past but you can turn back the clock by revisiting old memories.

This will remind you of your feelings for each other and how far you have come with your partner. This experience is more like taking a tour in your memory lane to remind yourself of the beautiful things you have experienced together. This will also remind you that those feelings you had for each other is still alive today

PUT MORE EFFORTS INTO UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER

Two different individuals can not be the same, think the same way, behavior the same way and react the same way. Even twins are not completely the same with everything.

The best thing you can do for your partner is to support them in the things they love, the major key here is to learn and understanding the things they love. Understanding how your partner thinks, behaves and react is key and a sure way of spicing up your relationship

GET MORE INTIMATE

Intimacy is very important. Find a way to touch and keep direct contact with your partner throughout the day. Get more of that sweet feeling of spending time together with your partner, hold hands while working down the driveway, look into each other’s eyes, kiss your partner as often as possible and involve in romantic love making. There is a huge difference between having sex and Love making. Getting more intimate with your partner will reinforce the feeling you have for each other

ENGAGE IN FUN ACTIVITIES

Engage yourself and your partner in fun activities more frequently. Play games with your partner, Dance with your partner or you can simply play hide and seek. You can go swimming, ice skating, fishing, hiking or simply walking. Fun activities are much more fun when you engage yourself with your partner. The fun you have together will go a long way for the relationship.

LEAVE LOVE NOTES

Love note is one of the oldest practices that is still relevant till today. Technology has taken over with little attention now given to written notes. This is an opportunity for you to remind your partner of how special they are by taking your time to leave a written heartfelt note.

This act will surely reignite the love and romance. It could be sliding a note in their pockets for them to read before going about their daily businesses, or leaving a note on the bed or on the bathroom mirror to start his/her day with a beautiful smile

DO ONE THING YOU WANT YOUR PARTNER TO DO

The truth is, relationship is a two ways street. There is a saying that you have to treat others the way you want to be treated. This is also applicable in a relationship and can be used to spice up the relationship. You have to create what you want and not just wait for it to happen.

If you want your partner to be romantic, you have to lead the way by being romantic. If you want to be served breakfast in bed, why not try to serve your partner breakfast in bed? By doing something for your partner that you want your partner to do for you, you are not only inviting your partner to do it to you, and you are also introducing something new for both of you. This act is a sure way to spice up your relationship.

OFFER TO DO SOMETHING YOUR PARTNER LIKES BUT YOU DON’T

Sometimes it’s all about pleasing your partner and making them feel special. As different individuals, we have difference preferences or choices. You can spice up your relationship by simply offering to do what your partner likes but you don’t. You can suggest a movie that you know your partner likes but you find boring. You can decide to eat your partner’s favorite dish that you never liked.

In every relationship, compromise is key. But how sweet it is to let your partner win without him/her having to compromise? Try to give your partner that satisfaction without them having to ask for it

TRY TO IMPRESS YOUR PARTNER

A lot of people take this for granted; besides your partner loves you so there is no need to impress him/her. That’s not completely true. There is every need to impress your partner every day. He/she will love your regardless but there is more to impressing an individual. Step up your game, dress hot, learn new styles etc. Put in extra work to please and impress your partner.

EAT WITH YOUR PARTNER

Eating with your partner is another healthy way of spicing up your relationship. Have breakfast with your partner, bring lunch to their work place and eat with them or have dinner together. You can go on a dinner date with your partner and enjoy the meal together

Eating together is much more fun than you can ever imagine. You can as well try to feed each other during the meal

Building a spark in your relationship is necessary to keep the fire burning in your love life. Take out your time and not just learn, but also practice the above highlighted tips on how to spice up your relationship.

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How to get your ex boyfriend back fast

Get your ex boyfriend to love you again

WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO TO GET YOUR EX BOYFRIEND BACK

How can you get your ex boyfriend to love you again? Are you trying to get him back to you? It is very common to miss your ex or want him/her back to you. I understand that sometimes you regret breaking up with your ex partner after having deep thoughts and realizing the mistake(s) that led to the breakup. Whether you broke up with him or he broke up with you, If you still want him back there are few tips I will share with you in this short article that will help you to get him back. Read and pay attention carefully, you must apply each tip correctly in order to achieve your result

Tips on how to get your ex boyfriend back in a relationship and have him go crazy about you again. Here is what and what you should do

  • Give him space and get your head together

The first thing you should do is to give him enough space. Instead of chasing him up and down, bugging him with multiple calls and text messages, give him some space and take your time to prepare for what to do. Before approaching him you need to plan your game carefully. Men are simple and straightforward unlike females.Giving him time is very relevant and the first step to take.

  • Find the problem that led to the breakup

Did you broke up with him or he broke up with you? What led to the breakup? Did you cheat on him? Was he complaining about something that he wasn’t comfortable with? Was it because of someone or something in particular? There is a reason for every breakup. The reason for the breakup can also provide the solution. Take your time and carefully reflect on what went wrong. You have to be completely honest to yourself, leaves blames behind and tell yourself the truth. If you don’t do it right at this stage, it may be difficult for you to succeed. You must identify the cause in order to provide a solution

  • Plan a solution for the problem

After finding the problem, you need to plan how to solve the problem. The main thing  revolves around the problem that led to the breakup and how to solve the problem. How can you solve the problem? What is the best solution to the problem? It is obvious that without a solution the problem will continue which means it’s impossible for him to come back. Even if he was the one at fault, you are the one trying to get back with him so you have to provide the solution. How do you plan to solve the problem? The solution to the problem is the main key to get him back to you

  • Find a way to get his attention without looking desperate

Now with your solution you are ready for discussion. After breakup a lot of people get in their feelings so they do everything possible to avoid their ex. Getting his attention might be a little bit difficult but that’s when you are not doing it right. Don’t try to get his attention with phone calls and text messages. Look out for the things he like and use it to get to him. Often visit places he likes to visit and talk to him in person or find someone closer to him who can assist you. It could be his sister, brother,  best friend or parent (s)

  • Apologize to him

Apologizing to him is very important. First you have to take responsibility and accept your flaws. Recognize that you were wrong for doing what you did and you regret it. Acknowledge the fact that your actions might have hurt him, then tell him how sorry you are for doingwhat you did. If he did something or you reacted to his actions, admit that you have forgiven him. Ask him for forgiveness and assure him that it will never happen again. Tell him how much you miss him, tell him how much you want him back with you. Also tell him how you plan to solve the problem and stop the situation from happening again.This process may take a little longer because someone people are not quick to forgive. You may have to be patient and try it over and over again with a new approach. You can regret your actions, apologize and ask for forgiveness without really begging or pleading. Do it stylishly with swag but humbleness

  • Regain his trust

He may forgive you and accept you back but regaining his trust is something you need to put in more efforts. Breakups usually comes with a broken trust. You need to make him trust you again, he wants to be sure that giving you a second chance is not a mistake.Desist from everything you are associated with that led to the breakup in the first instance. Stick to the solution you provided and be consistent. This may take a while because it is more difficult trusting someone again after an incidence. You must understand that regaining trust is a process and might take some time. He needs to be sure or be assured that you are serious and not back to hurt him once more

Make him want you again

Some people move on real fast after a breakup. Getting him back is more like starting all of and building from the scratch. Don’t think that things will automatically go back to how it were before the breakup. To be honest it’s more difficult getting him to want you again after a breakup up.

How do you make your boyfriend want you again after makeup? There are few things you can do to make him want you again

  • Look Good All times

It has been proven that men are moved by what they see. Looking good is a sure way to make him want you again. Take shower as often as possible, dress nice, use good deodorants, make your hair, fix your nails, fix your lashes and do your makeup. Always make sure you appear nice and more frequently in his eyes. You can wear things that reveal your full shape while at home with him alone. Don’t come home everyday looking like a great grandma with a ponytail

  • Work on your character

A woman’s character is something that is often underestimated. Your beauty can attract a man but your character is the only thing that can keep him. Take your time and work on your character, avoid the things he doesn’t like and do the things he likes. If there is anything he has been complaining about, this is the perfect time to take care of it. Pleasing him is a sure way of making him want you much more.

  • Work on your body

Working on your body is a sure way of making a man want you. Like I said earlier, men are attracted to what they see. You can workout at the gym or at home to stay fit. Treat your skin and look as sexy as you can. Working on your body is very important for many reasons such as building confidence, flexible, staying in shape, becoming more active and more presentable.

  • Work on your mentality

It is very true that a lot of men are attracted to what they see, but real men are more attracted to a woman’s mentality. Work on your mentality, how to reason and perceive things. He will go crazy about you when he notice that you have improved mentally. Place yourself high, think higher and bigger of yourself.

Stay away from bad company

Now that he is back with you and everything is going well, you have to completely desist from keeping bad company. The people you hang around with will have great influence on your relationship. You don’t want to destroy everything you have worked for because of the bad friends around you. Especially if the problem and reason for the first breakup was connected to a friend. Men are very watchful of the friends their girlfriend keeps.Ensure to be careful of the friends you keep.

Communicate with him

Communication is very key in every relationship. A successful or unsuccessful relationship is highly dependent on communication. There is a lot to learn from communicating with your partner especially after coming back from a breakup. Talk to him and ask him questions about the things he likes and the things he don’t, talk to him about the things you like and the things you hate. Talk to him about your feelings and insecurities and make sure you find out about his feelings and insecurities.

In conclusion

It might seem difficult getting your ex boyfriend back with and have him love you again like never before, but that’s only when you don’t know the right things to do. The above tips may not be complete or all you need in order to get your ex boyfriend to love you again. However we have covered the major points that can be of great help for anyone anywhere in the world who wants to get back with their ex boyfriend. Feel free to drop your opinion in the comment section

How to make an African man happy – DateAfrikans

DateAfrikans Tips on dating and keeping African men in a relationship

If you are not an African, you might think it’s difficult to make an African man happy. That’s not the case in reality. African men are rather unique but first you need to understand how to unravel the secret on how to make an African Man happy. The most interesting part is how an African Man will love and cherish you after you give him exactly what heis looking for. Dating an African man is the greatest experience every woman deserves to have.

In this article I will share tips on how to make an African Man happy and how to keep them in a romantic relationship. Pay attention to this and thank me later.

  1. Respect Him

Whether you are dating, engaged or married, one of the greatest weapon you can use to keep an African man in a relationship and make him happy is to respect him.  Men generally loves to be respected and that’s one quality a lot of women lack today. The African culture sees a man through his woman’s eyes. You need to understand that the people around him will treat him based on how you treat him. Always show respect and don’t take him for granted. Acknowledge his position and put respect on his name.

  • Understand his value system

Understanding an African man’s value system is very key if you want to make him happy. Pay attention to what he consider decent or embarrassing, what is right or wrong in his eyes. For instance if you go out with most African men and offer to pay the bills they will feel embarrassed or insulted. The culture teaches them to do everything for their women. You can pre arrange with him even though it’s your money, he will be the one paying the bills in the public.

  • Stay true to yourself

Be confident and proud of who you are and where you come from.Your personalityis what attracts a lot of men in a relationship. An African man wants his woman to stay true to herself, embrace who she is and be proud of what she have. Show your true colors and keep it real. Having a double personality is surely a turn off for a lot of African men. African men hates pretense with passion

  • Allow him to be the man of the house

Whether you are richer than him or more popular than him, you need to be submissive. You can be independent but he needs to be part of your decision making. In most cases all he want is to be the one making the final decision at the end of the day. The African culture places a woman where she needs to be submissive to her man once she is committed. Allow him to handle issues but be a supporting force. Here is a secret key, allow he to be the man while he will let you rule indirectly. That means he is the image of the relationship while you are making decisions underground. To keep a happy relationship with an African man you should be ready to let me feel like he is the head of the house. Once you place him there you can have him do anything you want

  • Feed him very well

The easiest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Find out what he likes to eat, when he likes to eat it and how to serve him. There is magic with feeding a man with good food. African men particularly loves to eat rich, healthy organic home-made food. Even if you cannot cook, make sure you always have a way of feeding him with what he likes to eat

  • Surprise him with acts of kindness

The little things matter! The truth is everyone loves positive surprises no matter how big or small. When you understand that his world revolves around you, all you can do is compliment him.Surprise him with a massage and pedicure, surprise him with a certain bill or a date. Just surprise him with something. Anything! Find out what his needs are and surprise him by providing.

  • Do not throw whatever you did for him in his face during an argument

This is one thing that will easily destroy your relationship with an African Man. Throwing what you have done for an African Man in his face is completely a turn off. He will feel insulted, embarrassed and humiliated. African men have pride and can do anything to protect it. Something like that will really hurt his pride and ego. Whatever you ever did for him will become useless once you throw it in his face especially during an argument.

  • Give him enough s*x

I know people will say “S*x cannot keep a man”. This may be true but at the same time if you give a man everything and take s*x away from him, he will not be completely happy.The truth is men loves s*x and will to any extent to find good s*x. You should always learn new things.

  •  Look and smell Good for him

Men are moved by what they see. Looking good is another strategy you can use to keep a man in a relationship. Take good care of yourself, make your hair and nails, dress nice and use good deodorant. African men love their women looking magnificent. They take pride in having the most gorgeous woman in the neighborhood

  1. Love his family

Family is one thing Africans don’t play with. Everything revolves around family in one way or the other. Every African wants a woman that loves his parents and siblings, how his family sees you will determine a lot. Always make sure you have his family on your side.

11 . Appreciate Him

Every individual loves to be appreciated for whatever they have done. Show gratitude and appreciate him for whatever he has done for you, your family and friends.

Why do people cheat in a relationship?

Today on Date Afrikans we have decided to take a tour towards finding out something very crucial. This might sound like a regular question but there is more to it.

  • Why do people cheat?
  • What is the reason for cheating?
  • What is your personal reason for cheating?
  • What will make you cheat?

We carried out a physical and online research to find out“Why People Cheat” and the various answers will blow your mind. I know you have your own opinion on Why People Cheat or probably have your own personal reason for cheating.

Cheaters are the most creative and hard working people. This is because; cheating is the most difficult game to play. Cheaters live on lies to survive. They live on excuses such as occupation, distance, weather, time etc.

They are very calculative and can take any available chance just to cheat. Some people cheat not because the people they are cheating with are better than their partners. Let’s look at the various reasons why people cheat

  • LACK OF ATTENTION

Attention is very important in every relationship. Lack of attention can cause a lot of damages to your relationship. A good number of people agreed that they have cheated on their partners because of lack of attention; some went further to say they will cheat and continue to cheat if someone else is paying more attention to them than their partner.

  • SEXUAL DESIRE

This is one of the major reason why a lot of people are cheating on their partner and will continue to cheat. A good number of people lack the ability to control their sexual urge, they are weak and can only focus on satisfying their immediate sexual desires.

  • DISTANCE

Some people suggested that distance should not be an excuse, but majority insisted that distance can play a role in cheating. Distant relationship is very difficult to deal with, a good number of people cannot be faithful in a distant relationship.

For several reasons, people try to pretend and lie to themselves but deep down they cannot deal with the pressure and cravings of spending time together with someone in real life.

  • FINANCE

Money can cause a lot of good things and bad things. A lot of people have cheated on their partners because of money; some are still cheating and will continue to cheat for the same reason. Lack of money can push an individual into doing so many things in order to survive or provide

  • REVENGE

This may surprise you but it is true. There are people out there who can go to any limit and do anything for revenge. So many people especially women admitted that they have cheated on their partners for revenge. Some said that the only reason they can cheat on their partner is if they find out that their partner is cheating on them.

  • ADDICTION

A lot of people blame addiction as the reason and excuse for cheating. Addiction in this instance comes in different forms

Sexual addiction. A good number of people out there are sexual addicts; they can not do without having sex for a couple of days. That means if their partner is not around for a couple of days, they have to cheat in order to satisfy their addiction. Also if their partner is sick or cannot satisfy them sexually, they have to find a replacement

Drug addiction. Drug addicts are also liable to cheat on their partners. A lot of people cannot control themselves when they are abuse drugs. This often results to sexual interactions with whoever is available and willing. Some drugs addicts go as far as raping in order to satisfy their urge

Alcohol Addiction. Alcohol Addiction is also risky and can be a reason for cheating. People who drink a lot of alcohol are liable to cheat on their partners when they are drunk. Everything looks better and brighter when you are tipsy on alcohol.

  • VARIETY

A good number of people insisted that people cheat because of variety. There are people whose intention is to try every variety such as;

Shape and Size. A good number of people cheat because of shape and size. They want to try different shapes just to have the feeling. A girl confessed that she has slept with a fat guy, a slim guy and a well built guy.

Same thing applies to men; they want to have that feeling of sleeping with a fat lady, a thick lady, a slim lady, lady with a big backside, lady with a small backside, lady with big boobs, lady with small boobs and so on.

Height. A couple of people agreed that people cheat because of height. They want to know what it feels like sleeping with a tall man/woman, they want to know what it feels like sleeping with a short man/woman, they also wants to know what it feels like sleeping with an average height person

Race and complexion. Race is another reason why people cheat on their partners. A good number of people out there want to know how it feels like sleeping with an African, White, Spanish, Asian, Arabian etc. They have cheated on their partners, they are willing to cheat on their partners just to try a different race.Others simply want to have that feeling of sleeping with a dark skinned, light skinned and brown skinned person.

  • LACK OF LOVE

A lot of people are in a relationship today not because they are in love with the person but for one reason or them other they have to continue with the relationship. Their true feelings and heart is somewhere but they are in a relationship with someone else. In some cases people also cheat because they feel like they are not receiving the love that they deserve. They don’t feel loved anymore so they have to look somewhere else

  • CURIOSITY

This may sound ridiculous but it’s true. Some people admitted cheating on their partners because they were curious to know what it feels like cheating. A friend of mine told me that he cheated on his wife just to know how it feels like.

  • ANGER

This was one of the most interesting points during the various interviews. A large percentage of people insisted that anger can make one cheat on their partner

  • CONCLUSIVELY

Truth of the matter is that, people cheat for no reasonable reason.

A good number of men are moved by what they see. The moment they see a lady, they start calculating many things which will lead to a tryout.

A good number of women are moved by what they hear and touch. It’s difficult for them to be interested at first, but they become more interested later on.

You can’t really tell who cheats more in a relationship between a man and a woman. Everybody is born with a cheating tendency; it all depends on your choice.

CHEATING IS A HABIT

HOW TO WIN HER BACK – GET YOUR EX TO LOVE YOU BACK AFTER BREAKUP (DateAfrikans)

DATEAFRIKANS WILL HELP GET YOUR EX TO LOVE YOU BACK AFTER BREAKUP

Do you want her back? Well, DateAfrikans will sure make that happen! Are you trying to get her back? I know a couple of tips that Will help you win her back if you truly want her back.It might seem difficult to get her back but you don’t have to worry anymore. In this article I will give you few tips that will completely solve your problem. If you want your ex back or you think your girlfriend is losing interest in you, just do these things and see the magic

  1. Give her space. Constantly bugging her with calls and text messages is not a healthy move. Instead of calling and texting, go to places where you know she likes to visit and tell her how much you missed her
  2. Take your time and reflect on what went wrong. What was the cause of the break up? How did you lose her in the first place? When you take out your time and reflect on everything that happened, you will be aware of how she felt and how she might be feeling.This is where you have the opportunity of losing her forever or getting her back. She was hurt about something, she felt uncomfortable about something. What was it? What was the reason for the breakup? Did you broke up with her or she broke up with you? Understanding the reason and cause of the breakup is very important
  3. Plan a strategic apology. You have to think about the right way of addressing the problem after you have identified the problem. Look out for what she likes and use it to get her attention. You need to understand that getting her attention now is going to be more difficult than when you were asking her out in the first place. Once you get her attention, you need to apologize and take responsibility for your actions. Let her know why you want her back and the solution you have for the problem. At this point you must give her reasons why she should take you back. Make sure you ask her to forgive you
  4. Make her want you again. Forgiving you is not enough! You have to make her want you again. Breakupusually comes with heartbreak and a very negative energy. At this stage you must gradually make her want you again by being a gentleman. Treat her like a queen, buy her roses, take her on dates, spend more time with her at the places she likes to visit and the things she likes to do.Make her feel irreplaceable and let her see that you have changed and become a more reasonable, responsible gentleman.
  5. Work on yourself. Working on yourself is very important. Your primary job here is to focus on making yourself more attractive to her. You have to seduce her mentally and physically. Go to the gym or do workout at home, dress good, eat healthy, smell good and be coordinated.
  6. Avoid keeping bad company. The people you hang around with will have much influence on your relationship. Keeping bad company is completely a turn off for women especially if you are starting all over again. She will feel very insecure with the people you hang around with. Women are very careful and pays close attention after making up and starting all over.
  7. Win her trust. She may forgive you and give you another opportunity to prove that you are worth a second chance. Trusting you again will require you to do more to prove yourself. She wants to be sure that giving you a second chance was not a mistake, she wants to be sure that you won’t break her heart again. She wants to be sure that the problem has been solved. If the breakup happened because of another girl, completely disconnect from keeping females close. She won’t trust you around females anymore.

10 Good Reasons Why You Should Date An African Woman – DateAfrikans

BENEFITS OF DATING AN AFRICAN WOMAN ( DateAfrikans)

DateAfrikans– When I say African women in this context, I am referring to women born and raised on the continent of Africa or by purely African Parents. The real African Queen not the general black women worldwide.

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Dating an African woman is a blessing to any man in the world.

Here are the top 10 good reasons why you should date an African Woman and the benefits of dating an African woman

  1. African Women are very supportive and encouraging

The life of an African woman is designed to support her partner to achieve greatness. If you date an African woman she will push you to be the very best at all costs. The African woman is built on the “We” concept. She will be willing to encourage you and help you to reach your full potentials because she believes that when you are well, she will be well. An African woman will bring out the best in you.

  • African Women have superpower tendencies

African Women are multi-tasking, versatile, powerful, career driven and passionate. They can survive almost anything. The African culture is designed to build a woman into a Queen. Dating an African woman will automatically elevate you and crown you as a king. Every man deserves a woman that compliments him and can represent him anywhere, anytime.

  • Good S*x

I remember a middle aged white man confessing that his African girlfriend almost killed him with good s*x. It has been proven that African women are unbeatable when it comes to s*x, they are extremely freaky, wild and creative. A recent research carried out in America by Date Afrikans revealed that 75% of white adult men prefer African women s*xually, 40% of Spanish men/Latino prefer African Women s*xuallyand 30% of Black American men prefer African Women s*xually. Maybe this explains why African women are the most victims of s*x traff*cking and s*xual exploitation.If you are looking for the greatest s*xual experience you should consider dating an African woman.

  • African Women hardly breakup or divorce once they are committed

African women are not quick to breakup,divorce or give up on someone once they are committed, they rather work things out. African Women always have a way of finding solutions to relationship and marital issues instead of just walking away. They are patient and not quick to take actions concerning their relationship or married. The Africans believe that a woman is a home builder, maybe that explains why Africa is refers to as motherland.

  • African Women are submissive and respectful

One of the main characteristic of an African woman is respect for whoever she is committed with. The African culture teaches women to be submissive to their man no matter how rich or big she is or becomes. As an African woman, whatever you have belongs to your husband and must be consulted before taking any decision. By dating an African woman you will command respect, she will respect you in your presence and behind your back. She will not only respect you, she will have others to respect you because of how she position you.

  • African Women are beautiful In and out.

African women are extremely beautiful. Their Melanin drips and this is way beyond just their physical appearance. Africans sees beautiful as a two sided coin, beauty on the outside which is the physical looks and inner beautiful which has to do with character. African Women are well cultured and have good manners, they are very loving and understanding. You need to try dating an Africanwoman to fully understand the meaning of beautiful in and out.

  • They love healthy, organic food and knows how to cook very well

African Women surely knows how to keep a man healthy and happy. They learn how to cook at a very tender age. As a girl growing up in an African home you have a lot to learn from your mother, aunt or guardian which includes cooking. Almost every African woman assisted their parents in the kitchen while growing up. They start from doing dishes to arranging spices/ other recipes. As a fully grown up woman who is not married, it is your responsibility to take over your mother’s kitchen until you are married to your own husband. By dating an African woman you will always enjoy sweet, healthy, organic home-made food

  • Fertility and reproduction

If you are looking for a mother who can birth you a child, you should consider dating or marrying an African woman. African Women are extremely fertile and always ready to reproduce. The rate of fertility in African societies is very high as compared to others. Africans have the ability of giving birth to many children and still maintaining a perfect shape. If you are not ready to have a child, you should avoid having unprotected s*x with an African woman.

  • You will have a second mother

An African woman will treat you like she is your mother. They are quick to accept responsibilities and will always be by your side no matter the situation. If you are motherless be sure of having a Mom by dating an African woman. She will automatically become your sister, friend, lover and most importantly a second mother.If you have siblings she will become a mother to all of them.

  1. You will inherit a big fun family

African are known for having a big family wherever they are in the world. The important of family in anybody’s life cannot be underestimated. Every African belongs to an extended family made up of a gang of siblings, cousins, nephews, nieces, uncles, aunt’s, godparents and family friends. The African family circle is really big and trust me big family is a lot of fun. By dating an African woman, you automatically have a lot of in-laws to entertain and a lot of social functions to attend.